Teaching through behaviorTeaching through behavior can be insidious
Workers can use their behavior (frowning, giving disapproving links), but then later say "I never told you not to do that. I'm sorry you think we have that rule."
I grew up in the Workers' Way and saw that the workers very softly and sweetly taught subtle lies in guile; I learned to associate "kindness" and "nice"-acting people with lies. I became confrontational to get answers. Now I'm learning to speak the full truth in love.
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